Sunday, November 22, 2009

Too Loud to Listen: Rice Dinner Part I


Last night I was awake much of the night listening to the loud rain and wind storm that knocked out our electricity for a few hours. Usually I would sleep right through, but last night we had a dinner of just rice and tea to learn about poverty and prepare our hearts for Thanksgiving. I must have had too much tea that charged me up with caffeine.

Other families joined us to learn about how over one billion people in the world go to bed hungry each night. In order to try and grasp how large the number a billion is, we took the "Billion Quiz" I put together (above). One kindergartner asked about all my off the internet facts, "How do you know all that?" My daughter inquired, "How do they know it is three billion people that live on less than $2.50 a day? Did they go around and check?"

Regardless of how it is measured, the number of people living in poverty is completely overwhelming. We talked about the fact that we may not realize that people in our own community are also hungry. That is why we collected food for the local food bank.

As we sat on blankets on the floor and had only rice for dinner, we were reminded that many people would be thankful to have even rice to eat. One little girl said, "I'm just thankful for real food."

My husband, who was learning about Malawi with a first grade boy, asked him if he thought they ate more than rice in Malawi. After thinking about it for a while he said, "Yes, they probably eat other things like in restaurants."

When we live surrounded by so much abundance, the reality of most of the world population's situation seems surreal, and hard to imagine. As I listened to the noisy storm pouring down last night I kept thinking our daily experiences of abundance scream so loudly as the norm that we are not able to fully grasp and listen to the conditions in the rest of the world.
Sources used for Billion Quiz: UNICEF,2009 http://www.globalissues.org/; World Bank Development Indicators 2008; The Megapenny Project - Kokogiak.com; www.ehd.org/science_technology




Friday, November 20, 2009

Giving Your Birthday Away


The blue Children of the Nations truck was just here in my driveway. Fraser of COTN dropped off huge bags of rice and lentils, three sealers, two scales, a big stack of boxes, industrial strength plastic bags, and cups with smiley faces used for scooping.

Now I need to finish cleaning the house and start baking a cake. You see my daughter, who just turned eleven, decided to give her birthday away. She had the idea that her friends could bring money for a meal packaging event instead of bringing her another Polly Pocket, gift card, Barbie or book.

She has been so excited waiting for today when it is all going to happen - Pizza in our kitchen, decorating shipping boxes to delight the kids at the orphanage that will receive them, and packaging all those meals. We hope to make more than 2,000 meals tonight with her eight friends.

We hope that giving your birthday away will catch on! I hope many others will also do something for needy kids in third world countries or in the United States for their birthdays. Of course, COTN meal packaging is a great opportunity: http://www.cotn.org/ Of all the parties she has had (including bouncy places, parks, princess parties, and tea parties) I think this will be one she remembers the most.




Thursday, November 19, 2009

The Importance of Adding a Comma


Good thing they added a comma to this sign! A comma is an important punctuation mark. It can change the whole meaning.

According to the Oxford English Dictionary, the word comma comes from the Greek komma (κόμμα), which means something cut off or a short clause. A comma separates. It is where you take a breath.

I've started to learn how important the commas are in my life. Busy busy busy rush rush rush - We can attempt to live without any commas. Taking a break, separating one thing from the next, sorting things out by their significance and weight, is so much better than all of life's challenges, opportunities and revelations running together.

Don't we sometimes think that if we work harder, faster and longer we will accomplish more, even if what we desire is to draw closer to God? Only through inserting a comma here and there in our lives to abide in Jesus can we have a fruitful life. At Creation, God gave us the example of a Sabbath rest. Later Jesus also modeled this pattern of work and rest.

At Missio Lux, we've been learning tools called LifeShapes that are developed from scripture. The LifeShape that gives us our commas is called the Semi-Circle. It illustrates this rhythm of moving from a place of rest to a place of work - back and forth. In work we bear fruit. In rest we abide and are pruned for more future fruit to grow.

"Remain in me, and I will remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me." John 15:4

What is your approach to work and rest? Do you need to insert more commas?


Previous Blog about this Rhythm of Life Click Here
Semi-circle Life Shape from Building a Discipling Culture Huddle Guide Breen and Cockram 2009

Monday, November 16, 2009

Shining Diamonds


Diamonds: Women and children whose worth and place in life needs discovering.
We met the diamonds last night. Our Arbors Missio Lux Community of families made an evening of preparing and eating dinner, and playing games with the women and kids that live in the transitional home and the adjacent apartments. Acres of Diamonds supports previously homeless women and their children in a loving, spiritual environment while teaching them to become self-sufficient.
As we hung out in their home, it seemed like a great big family gathering: kids and dads on the floor playing, too many cooks in the kitchen, and lots of loud conversation mixed with laughter. It felt great to be Missio Lux - the church present in the world - and even better to experience through their hospitality and warm friendship the light shining from these women. Most of them have come from places of intense and terrifying darkness and yet have now been exposed to light through Acres of Diamonds.
I'm sure I'll be blogging more about our experiences there as we are looking forward to going back to visit and hang out with our new friends. In fact, Tamara beat me to blogging about our evening so for more of the story: READ HER BLOG HERE

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Wonderful, Beautiful, Glorious, Matchless in Everyway!

In God's presence:
Our accomplishments fade away.
All our crowns are no longer on display.
We are undone.
All things are new.
Heaven and earth become one.

Take a few minutes to soak in His presence -

Friday, November 13, 2009

Hungry or Thirsty?


I absolutely love meeting with our Peace Seekers Community. Today we were talking about being thirsty and how sometimes you can be completely dried out and dehydrated and you don't know you are thirsty until you get a first sip. Then you realize your thirst and want more to drink. Kind of like priming a pump. Sometimes when we've been in a dry place and get a sip of Jesus we thirst for more and more. After all Jesus is living water - "but whoever drinks the water I give him will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life." (John 4:14).

One incredible woman had this great insight (and brilliant blog fodder): We keep being told that we should drink lots of water, eight glasses a day or whatever the current advice is. It is hard to drink that much water especially if we don't feel thirsty. We know we want something, and so often we eat. We don't realize that we are really just thirsty for water because we need more water, in fact sometimes we are even completely dehydrated. Yet we eat all kinds of things when we really just needed a glass of water.

What are you eating in life because you think you feel hungry - but really you are just thirsty? Are you recognizing your thirst for what it is or continuing to hunger for things that won't satisfy? Are you drinking living water?

Friday, October 30, 2009

Heaven is the Face

For a very long time I just could not bear to listen to Steven Curtis Chapman's song I'll Dance With Cinderella after his little daughter was killed in a tragic accident. This song by Steven Curtis Chapman is coming out on his new album this week. Get the Kleenex ready!

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Good Question


"Most of the goals of the modern church can be accomplished without God. All we need is people, money, and a common objective," writes Bill Johnson. "We have programs and institutions that in no way require the Spirit of God to survive." Later he adds, "There is a great difference between the way Jesus did ministry and the way it is typically done today. He was completely dependent on what the Father was doing and saying." He also contends that about 95% of what the early church did depended on the Holy Spirit, yet only about 5% of what the church today does requires reliance on the Holy Spirit.

I think he has a good point. That is why I appreciate this question Tamara asked Missio Lux Community Leaders last night: "Where have you seen Kingdom breakthrough in the last two weeks?" Or in other words "Where have you seen God working and His will being done?" As leaders of a new and innovative church it would be easy for us to focus on our plans, our structure, our programs and how we are doing things. How much more appropriate to ask about what God is dong and teaching us. (Just like Jesus prayed right? "Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven." - Matthew 6:10KJV)

The reports are amazing. We could have spent the whole night letting everyone tell their stories of things that would have been clearly improbable without God's involvement. You can read about some of them on Tamara's Blog. It reminded me of Blackaby's often cited quote that is something like, "If you want to experience God, go where God is at work."

In I Corinthians 3:11-23, Paul instructs us to build on the foundation of Jesus and then to pay attention to the quality of materials we use when we are building. The quality of the work will be tested - by fire even. There is a temptation to do it ourselves, to build a structure that makes sense relying on our own thinking.
I am thankful that the people of Missio Lux and others are taking on the challenge of being the church present in the world, learning from the lifestyle of Jesus and letting God use them in small, big and surprising ways.


11For no one can lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ. 12If any man builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, 13his work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each man's work. 14If what he has built survives, he will receive his reward. 15If it is burned up, he will suffer loss; he himself will be saved, but only as one escaping through the flames. 18Do not deceive yourselves. If any one of you thinks he is wise by the standards of this age, he should become a "fool" so that he may become wise. 19For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in God's sight. As it is written: "He catches the wise in their craftiness"; 20and again, "The Lord knows that the thoughts of the wise are futile." 21So then, no more boasting about men! All things are yours, 22whether Paul or Apollos or Cephas or the world or life or death or the present or the future—all are yours, 23and you are of Christ, and Christ is of God. I Corinthians 3:11-23 (NIV)
Quotes from Bill Johnson's book When Heaven Invades Earth

Monday, October 26, 2009

How Is Your Soil? Part II


Last night at our Arbors Missio Community we divided the kids and adults up into groups and each group was charged with making a visual aid on a paper plate with play dough to show one of the four types of soil Jesus described in the parable of the soils. (Luke 8:1-15)
One group made a road with bright colored seeds waiting to be picked up by a passing bird. The next had so many little round rocks that you couldn't even see the seeds that sprouted and shriveled. The third had spiky thorns choking out the plants. The fourth had beautiful pink tulips, representing the good soil and the key verse in this passage: “But the seed on good soil stands for those with a noble and good heart, who hear the word, retain it, and by persevering produce a crop.” Luke 8:15

We had a time to reflect on the condition of our heart soil and whether God's word is able to take root and grow.


Path people, like many of the religious leaders in Jesus time, refuse to believe God’s message.

Rock people, like many in the crowds who followed Jesus, believe his message but never get around to doing anything about it.

Thorn patch people, overcome by worries or the lure of materialism and riches, leave no room in their lives for God.

Good soil people, in contrast to all the other groups, follow Jesus no matter what the cost.

Which type of soil are you? What changes do you need to make in your thinking, heart or behaviors to improve the condition of your soil? Spend some time asking God to reveal these things to you. What specific actions can you take this week and who can you ask to hold you accountable for the changes you've decided to make?

See Part I: Click Here

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Improving People's Days

A few years ago we were on a weekend get-a-way to Leavenworth with the kids. We stopped at a McDonald's. I can still remember the man named Nick. He was a greeter in the dining room. I'm not sure if he was a greeter or just a guy who worked there, but this man made everyone's experience at McDonald's that day so much better. He held the door open for as many people as he could. He welcomed us, helped us carry stuff to our table, poured extra coffee and even though the place was packed, he did this for every customer. He even said goodbye to everyone when they left. (I have a thing about saying goodbye so you know I loved this.) Imagine five star service at a McDonalds.

In the summer of 2008 we went to the Kidd Valley Burger place across from the beach in Kirkland. Have you been there? Have you met Tina? I took my parents there a couple weeks ago to try sweet potato fries, and as soon as we pulled in the parking lot I remembered Tina and the great service she provided the last time we were there. Sure enough, there she was with a big smile on her face. She knows many of her customers by name and her great attitude and the way she makes people feel are memorable. She works hard to anticipate the customers' needs - like that my mom might want her chicken sandwich cut in half. I think her middle name must be fun. She's worked there for over four years and it is obvious she makes the most of her fast food job everyday.

People who care enough to try to help other people have a better day fascinate me. Especially because their efforts are rejected by some people who just don't get it. However, being a blessing to others is so much better than doing nothing. What do you think of Rob and his high fives in this video? What can you do to make a difference in someone's day?

Friday, October 23, 2009

Party with a Purpose in Our Garage

This is an exciting weekend because we will reach our Missio Lux goal of packaging 40,000 meals for Children of the Nations. It won't end there as there are still a number of Food Packaging Events still scheduled and people interested in hosting events, including my daughter's upcoming birthday party that she has decided to give away to Children of the Nations. When you watch this video, you will see why!

Last Saturday our Peace Seekers Missio Community had raised the money to package and ship 6,000 meals for Sierra Leone. Along with friends and neighbors we enjoyed a soup dinner together and then got to work in our garage packaging lentils, rice, dried vegetables, chicken powder and spices into plastic bags and shipping boxes. We brought the count up to 39,860 meals! Enough to feed over 100 kids a protein and vitamin packed meal each day for a year. Yes, life saving food for 100 kids!! Let's keep it going.




Click Here for: MORE ON OUR FOOD PACKAGING PROJECT

Thursday, October 22, 2009

How Is Your Soil? Part I

Sunday night we will be learning about this parable at our Arbors Missio Community. These videos are each only about one minute long: Matthew13:3b-8





This one is the "Mr. Bill" version:



We would love to have you join us on Sunday evening. MORE INFORMATION

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

First Treasure Hunt Yields Treasure

Treasure Hunt? Last spring within a couple weeks I kept hearing about this idea of Treasure Hunting. First it was shown in a documentary, then I read a website about an amazing experience a woman in Oklahoma had on a Treasure Hunt, then my seminary professor mentioned them, and then, strangest of all, when I was in South Carolina I met the husband of the woman from Oklahoma that wrote that story I read. This man and others had even more incredible stories about Treasure Hunts. So I started to think "...hm...this sounds really different but maybe we are supposed to try this?" Of course I was also asking, "Who could I convince to try this with me?"

The idea of a Treasure Hunt is to find someone that God wants you to share his love and compassion with. A couple (or more) people pray silently and ask God for direction about where to go and what or who to look for. Out of curiousity, I've planned to order the book Treasure Hunt, but haven't yet.

So when I was meeting with Tamara today and she suggested we take the rest of our meeting time to try a Treasure Hunt I was game, but I was also thinking that I wasn't prepared because I didn't read the book yet, and one church told us they tried it for six months before all of a sudden having one incredible experience after another. (Of course, being of little faith, I reminded Tamara of this.) Anyway, I knew I had to meet the school bus in about an hour so she couldn't get me into too much trouble.

We prayed and to our minds came a list of four or five things. Their meaning seemed a little sketchy to us, but we knew right where we were supposed to go.

As we drove over in our separate cars, my dread started to be replaced with excitement as I realized that God might really do something, in fact he probably would. When we got there, at first we kind of looked at each other and wondered what was up. We walked around the area. Nothing around us seemed to fit with our "clues." So we sat down at a table in our spot outside to wait for something to happen.

If you know us, you know that sitting still, doing nothing, and waiting for something to happen does not come easily for either one of us. So I went inside to get us some Starbucks. (Yes, this IS Seattle so there is a Starbucks every fifty feet.) But there in Starbucks, right inside the window of where we felt we were supposed to go, I saw a man sitting there. I just knew that he was looking for a job and was somewhat anxious or discouraged.

At first the two of us probably looked like some sort of really bad spies. We sat at a nearby table and eventually we started a conversation with the man. We told him we felt we were supposed to go there to pray for someone and maybe that was him. Amazingly it didn't feel strange -even though it sounds kind of like the Blues Brothers' when they said, "We're on a Mission from God," but Tamara and I would have a hard time passing for Jake and Elwood.

We had a wonderful conversation with this very nice man who truly needed encouragement. He had been laid off from his job and had been in the running for four other jobs that didn't work out. He told us we were his "two angels" as he was thinking about the interview he has tomorrow. We prayed for him and he was thankful for our presence and promised to let us know how things go.


So treasure hunting wasn't that scary or strange after all, and in fact we found a valuable treasure and a tremendous blessing. Afterward, I was home less than a half an hour when I called Tamara to see if I could blog about our experience today and she told me that she beat me to it and had already written her blog -You can tell we were both excited about our first treasure hunt. Read her story too: CLICK HERE

Monday, October 19, 2009

Hannah's Bedtime Prayer

No wonder Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." Matthew 19:14


Sunday, October 18, 2009

Baxter Dried Tears Into Smiles

I noticed this video only because my sister thought our new puppy should be named Baxter. What a wonderful service animals and the people who take the time and patience to provide pet therapy offer. See for yourself....Baxter just died this week on October 16th.

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Extreme Sheep

Jesus said, "I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me— just as the Father knows me and I know the Father—and I lay down my life for the sheep." (John 10:14-15) Like a shepherd, Jesus protects and feeds his sheep (Matthew 14:13-21) and he searches for each one when they are lost (Luke 15:4). As sheep, we will recognize our shepherd's voice and leading. (John 10:1-7)


If the embedded video below is not working - here is the link to it: CLICK HERE



A group of Welsh sheep farmers have become internet sensations after this video went online. The 200 second ad also sees the creatures manoeuvred into position to create a giant sheep and even has them creating the Mona Lisa with the various coloured LEDs on their back. However they admitted computer trickery had been used.

Matt Smith, the co-founder of ad agency The Viral Factory said: "The people on camera are real farmers and they were really controlling the sheepdogs. Rather than trying to fake it all we did it for real. The sheep herding bit is straight up – no trickery but there is a fair amount of computer trickery and post production work. We thought the Mona Lisa was the big wink to people – once they saw that we thought they would realise it was not all real. But we have been quite surprised that there is still a debate about whether it is all real and people have been coming up with various theories."

Mr Smith said the main problem on the shoot was not herding the sheep, but getting enough of them. He went on: "We filmed it at the end of last month (February) and it is lambing season so we could not disturb the sheep that were lambing because it would have been too stressful. From: Telegraph.co.uk

Friday, October 16, 2009

Adopting the Art of Asking Questions?


"Adopting the Art of Asking Questions?" This was a Facebook status posted by one of my friends this week. Do you love this question as much as I do? It has been making me think all week. In fact, perhaps I could write a book with this title?

I know I need to ask more questions. (No question there!) Don't I make far too many comments before seeking enough information? Asking more questions might keep me out of most of the trouble I get myself into?

Don't you love when other people ask you questions about yourself? Don't you think asking more questions would enhance most of our relationships?

If we asked more questions, wouldn't our understanding of the world around us and the needs of others be significantly more accurate? Doesn't it take laying down our pride sometimes to ask something? Maybe we'll look like we don't know everything?

In about second grade, didn't most of us figure out that no one likes a "Know It All?" We don't want to be "instructed"- do we? Isn't it so much better to be asked?
That is why I'm always interested in the difference between Mentoring and Coaching (not sports coaching but coaching individuals/development coaching). Where mentors offer advice usually from their experience; coaches ask more questions. I think it is remarkable how much people can learn about who they are and what they should do just by being asked the right questions and coming to their own answers. Learning through questions can be so much more impactful. And don't I always need more effective approaches in guiding my kids?

It really is an art though; isn't it? Maybe I'll adopt the art of asking questions? How about you?

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Global Handwashing Day

With the potential of swine flu upon us, we take for granted that we can wash our hands to prevent the spread of disease. Not everyone washes their hands even after using the toilet. (But some people - like the 1.1 Billion people without clean water - have no choice). Today is Global Handwashing Day. Help prevent the diarrheal diseases and respiratory infections that kill 10,000 children daily by raising awareness of the global water crisis by talking to someone about it - or better yet supporting Water1st.

Water 1st currently has projects in need of funding in some of the poorest regions of the world – the urban slums of Dhaka, Bangladesh; The Sunderbans in West Bengal, India; the community of Chimisal in the Southern Lempira District of Honduras; and the community of Gonbisa Kussaye in the Oromia Region of Ethiopia. Make a donation today and help bring safe water to people in need. www.Water1st.org

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Andy's Boots


My sister-in-law is visiting from Michigan and one of the best parts of catching up is comparing stories about my nephew. He is a sophomore at Spring Arbor University in Michigan. One of the great benefits of being an aunt is being a Facebook friend. Last night I let his mom peruse the 355 photos of him on his profile and I heard some fascinating stories about college life.

For example, evidently Andy ran out of clean socks in the middle of a snow storm last winter and wore sandals for two weeks until he finally decided to do his laundry. Even though he is rather infamous for having this (one) weird woman's boot in his room (photo taken without permission from Andy's Facebook Profile), he doesn't see the need to own a pair of boots to wear around the snowy campus. His mom can't understand why anyone would chose to wear sandals in the snow!

Utterly unprepared for the weather, this reminds me of choosing not to wear the spiritual armor that we are advised to wear in Ephesians Chapter 6: 11-18. We are to put on the full armor of God so that we can take our stand against the devil's schemes, including boots of readiness of God's peace.

"For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places. Therefore, put on every piece of God’s armor so you will be able to resist the enemy in the time of evil. Then after the battle you will still be standing firm. Stand your ground, putting on the belt of truth and the body armor of God’s righteousness. For shoes, put on the peace that comes from the Good News so that you will be fully prepared. In addition to all of these, hold up the shield of faith to stop the fiery arrows of the devil. Put on salvation as your helmet, and take the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God." Ephesians 6:10-17 The New Living Translation
Fortunately, even though Andy doesn't wear the kind of boots his mom thinks he needs in the snow, he wears the boots that really matter.


Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Cruising for Community

We've been on three other cruises over the years before our trip on Holland America's Zaandam last week. Usually we've had assigned seating for dinners. With assigned seating you arrive at a given time each night and sit with the same people and the same servers wait on your table. Holland America offers an Open Seating Option, where you can come when you want and you sit with different people each night.

Two of the four evenings on our cruise we chose open seating. Both nights we were fortunate to sit with nice, interesting people. Each night we met elderly couples that commented that they missed the opportunity to sit with the same people each night of the cruise for dinner. One of the couples mentioned how busy their children and grandchildren are, and they only hear from them when they need money. They longed to connect with other people.

I think what these couples were saying is that they missed the community that develops as people get to know each other over the dinner table, especially over multiple nights on a cruise. Imagine being so hungry for community that you go on a cruise for your vacation to find it. My husband and I have laughed about how, after getting to know each other on the cruise, everyone is desperate to exchange contact information yet no one even sends a Christmas card.

In today's busy world, when it is even hard for families living under the same roof to eat a meal together, Missio Lux has taken seriously the idea that community develops around the table. In fact, Jesus did too as he dined with both the religious leaders as well as social outcasts, doing much of his teaching around the table. Our missio communities, our monthly gatherings, and our missio projects almost always involve a meal shared together-- a time and place for connections to happen, community to develop, stories to be shared and organic spiritual formation to occur.
Offering community is a gift we can give to others. Who are you in community with? Who can you invite into community?






Monday, October 12, 2009

Tour Guide


My husband and I just returned from a great trip to celebrate our 20th Anniversary. We found an incredibly cheap deal on a Holland America relocation cruise, moving an Alaskan cruise ship to San Diego for its winter route in the south. This was not only a planes, trains, and automobiles trip; but a ship, taxi, and rental car trip too!

When we arrived in Vancouver, B.C. on Amtrack, we caught a cab at the train station to take us to the port. Our taxi driver was an amazing tour guide. I think he missed his calling. As we traveled just a couple miles, he enthusiastically told us all about Vancouver. He talked about the two China towns, the blocks to avoid where transients and drug dealers hang out, famous Gas Town and the upcoming Olympics.

As we left the port and cruised out to sea, a woman from Vancouver happened to be standing next to us on the ship deck. As we watched the city fade into the distance on a beautiful sunny day, she told us more than we could ever want to know about the areas of the city, the universities, places to visit (including the nude beach), and the history of bridges and families that owned the land.

The next day we were in port in Victoria, B.C. We opted for the "do our own thing" plan rather than pay for an expensive excursion around Victoria with a tour guide. We had a great time walking, well over ten miles in all, from the port into the city and back again. Even though we had a road map, a few times we were kind of lost. We spent a while trying to find a good place for Dave to have his favorite fish'n'chips for lunch, including sitting down in one pub only to leave before ordering when it got a little scary. Sometimes we took the long way, and even ended up walking down a couple blocks where we didn't belong.

We visited the government building and wondered: Why is the Union Jack seal from the UK on the garbage cans? Why is the Queen of England's picture so prominently displayed in the Parliament building? What exactly is the connection between the British monarchy and B.C., or all of Canada for that matter? I'm sure if we had had a tour guide we would know the history of Victoria and its English roots and appreciate the current relationships. But we didn't have a tour guide, and so we don't have anything close to a full understanding of what we saw.

Bill Johnson, in his book When Heaven Invades Earth, mentions that the Holy Spirit is the tour guide as we read scripture. That without the Holy Spirit guiding and leading us as we read, we won't fully understand it and it won't transform our lives.
He talks about how our approach to Bible Study often provides us with only a road map and we live as if we can find our way with our own understanding. But according to him, "this perspective of scriptures actually describes living under the law, not living under grace." Living under the law involves a set of pre-set boundaries and not a relationship. Under grace, the Holy Spirit is a tour guide who directs, reveals, and empowers us to be and do what the Word says.
Last week I posted a list of ways to dwell in the Bible. In order for the Bible to come alive and transform us, we need to invite the Holy Spirit to come along on our journey as our tour guide.

Saturday, October 3, 2009

Sleeping Babies

Don't miss these absolutely adorable sleeping babies brought to the internet by the Today Show. LINK

Friday, October 2, 2009

What's Your Camera Angle?

Isn't it interesting how someone can be a part of the same conversation or event and yet their take on what happened is completely different than yours. I often get frustrated when people don't see things from my perspective. Even though I know everyone views life from their own vantage point, I still seem to expect them to see things from my point of view. When I stumbled up on this clip, it reminded me of how differently people sees things - and the grace I need to have because everyone else's camera angle happens to be different than mine. (If you watch just the first minute or so you'll get my point.)


Directors Point of View from Jared Wells on Vimeo.

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

'Heard of Drunkorexia?


I just learned of "drunkorexia" this morning, but evidently it has been around for a while. CBS ran a story on it last year, reporting that thirty percent of women with drinking problems also have some form of eating disorder. They chose to purge or substitute food calories for calories in alcohol consumed while binge drinking. Some students cut back on purchasing groceries in order to have money to buy alcohol.

Obviously, there are severe short term and long term consequences of this behavior. First, drinking after not eating for many hours or even days enhances the effects of alcohol often resulting in passing out; but there are also long term higher risks for blackouts, cirrhosis and breast cancer, as well as vulnerability to physical and sexual abuse.

As a mom of two pre-teens I am interested in how to ward off these disorders that have so much to do with body image and efforts to fit in socially. Drunkorexia stems from a preoccupation with weight and a desire to be as slim as possible. Since binge drinking (consuming alcohol at least four times a week with four to seven drinks at one sitting) is such a common college activity, many young women are not willing to give it up. "Their identity is so wrapped up in it. They are facing choices like … ‘Who am I if I’m not drinking or not the fun girl?’” said one professional who works with those suffering from this disorder.

“It isn’t necessarily (caused by) one thing,” said Beth Hardy, from a center that treats such patients. “It’s a number of factors … (It’s) a correlation between genetics, environment, social and character factors and temperament.” Many clients use alcohol and food as a way to deal with negative emotions like anxiety, depression and anger.

According to preliminary research, students involved with fraternities and sororities are at a higher risk for these disorders. Social anxiety and eating disorders go hand in hand. This just underlines the importance of what we are doing now to raise our kids with experiences that enhance their understanding of their identity and value - including the importance of a healthy diet and positive body image.

For those who suffer with all types of addictions Missio Lux offers Celebrate Recovery and its twelve step groups for help in overcoming hurts, hangups and habits. More Information.

Monday, September 28, 2009

Ways to Dwell



The number one behavior most correlated to spiritual maturity is plain old reading the Bible according to Bruce Waggoner in the book The Shape of Faith to Come. His statement is based on significant research. He writes, "Make sure people are constantly being taught to read and study the Bible. Refuse to fall prey to the temptation to think that sermons and Bible studies, as important as they are, replace private devotion."

Here is my list of some ways to dwell in the Bible:

Bible Experience Dramatic Audio Recordings of the NIV Bible (by Media Group) Link (I loaded them on my iPod.)

Bible Gateway – Use the Icons for Commentaries and Audio Reading (http://www.biblegateway.com/)

Dwelling in the word blog (http://www.dwellingintheword.wordpress.com/) A great blog that takes you through the Bible in three years. She adds art, media and other resources for each passage.

Scripture set to music – Website: (www.biblemelody.andyviar.com/) http://www.forevergratefulmusic.com/ Or Purchase CDs of various artists through http://www.christianbook.com/

Memory Programs (Search on Bible Memory Programs)

Reading: Consider utilizing various translations like The Message (by Eugene Peterson) or a Parallel Bible that shows multiple translations. You could also use a Gospel Synopsis, Study Bible or a Commentary. Reading through the Bible in a Year Bibles and schedules are available also on line.

Journal about Scripture you read

Lectio Divina (Contemplative repeated reading of scripture. - More in a future blog)
How do you like to dwell? Please add your ideas as a comment.

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Beatitudes

In the book The Shape of Faith to Come Bruce Waggoner states that the findings of significant research have shown that the number one behavior most correlated to spiritual maturity is reading the Bible. He writes, "Make sure people are constantly being taught to read and study the Bible. Refuse to fall prey to the temptation to think that sermons and Bible studies, as important as they are, replace private devotion."

I consider this "dwelling in the Word". Here is a video of the Beatitudes - Take a few moments to dwell in Jesus' teaching.

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Clara Who?


When you see this red cross you probably don't think first of Clara Barton. I know I must have missed the week in elementary school where they teach you about her, because I had no idea who she was until a friend of mine, an obstetrician in Orange County, brought me to a luncheon where she was receiving a "Clara Barton Award" as special recognition from the Red Cross for her work in the community.

Yes, Clara Barton started the Red Cross. This week I am blogging about ordinary people that started something and as others came along to join the effort something remarkable developed. (At Missio Lux, we call this the Ripple Effect.)

When she was about forty years old Clara Barton organized efforts to bring supplies to soldiers injured in the Civil War. She was a driven woman and eventually went right up to the front lines on the battle fields to deliver care to the wounded of both the North and the South. I love that she also produced lanterns from her wagon to provide needed light for the surgeons as they worked at night. It seems to fit with Missio Lux (Mission of Light)- bringing light into the darkness to bring healing and hope.

The Red Cross was not the first thing Clara Barton started though. Despite being extremely shy as a child, as a teacher she set up the first free Public School in the state of New Jersey because she recognized an unmet need. In her thirties she was the first woman to work in the Patent Office in Washington. She is also credited with saying, "I may sometimes be willing to teach for nothing, but if paid at all, I shall never do a man's work for less than a man's pay." Pretty revolutionary for the 1800's wouldn't you say?

When she was 60 years old, she convinced the U.S. Government to recognize the Red Cross as having a role in providing aid in the event of natural disasters. Even into her 70s she provided hands on relief work.

She started something, something that grew into something huge, something that still provides neutral humanitarian aid, relieving and preventing suffering all over the world. What unmet need do you see? What something can you start?




Thursday, September 17, 2009

What if there were no MOPS groups?


This week I'm blogging about things that were created by someone taking the initative to start something. In 1973 eight women gathered in Wheat Ridge, Colorado to start something. It was the first MOPS meeting. Sure it was only a few people, but the need was great.
At the original MOPS meeting, "for two hours, while their children received care, mothers talked, laughed, ate, passed a basket for childcare expenses, had a craft demonstration and ended with a short devotional. In this humble beginning, the seeds of the MOPS concept and format were planted. Through friendship, creative outlets, and instruction, the women began to understand that "mothering matters." Today, the same needs for significance are met in much the same way in MOPS groups across the United States and around the world," recounts the MOPS website.

Now MOPS International serves 110,000 mothers of preschoolers from all walks of life including teen moms. There are over 4,000 local chapters of MOPS across the United States and more than 123 international groups in 32 countries worldwide. MOPS (Mothers Of Preschoolers) groups provide moms with a place to find a support network and grow as women, mothers and leaders.
I think, plainly and simply, MOPS helps preschool moms keep their sanity and stay out of jail, but author Rick Warren describes it this way: “There is no more significant group of cultural changers in the world than mothers."

"From the beginning, women in MOPS were not content to be spectators. Through MOPS, they found an opportunity to discover and cultivate their leadership gifts. As women moved around the country, they took the concept of MOPS with them, and new groups formed."

"Requests for information became more frequent, and a handbook was printed. Office space moved from a desk in a family room to a rented office. One hundred fifty women from five states gathered in 1982 for the first all-day MOPS leadership seminar. In 1988, MOPS expanded beyond US borders and was renamed MOPS International, Inc. and hired a paid staff."(1)

The original MOPS group moms got together again on MOPS' 25th anniversary. Can you imagine what it must have felt like for those eight women to hear the stories of MOPS groups around the world; to see the magazines, books and radio shows that MOPS produces; and to know the amazing leaders and families that have been impacted by MOPS? How does it feel to start something that God uses in such an incredible way? What if in 1973 they decided to just stay home or get other things done, to not meet and take a chance on starting something; start what is now MOPS?

Information from http://www.mops.org/

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

My Blogcation


OK - I'll admit it. I took an unexpected, unplanned blogcation right in the middle of a "Blog Series" - if you want to call it that.
What have I been doing? In addition to nursing my husband back to health after OSU's loss to USC, I was sucked into three impactful books this week. One a novel I started in July and set aside about a man who lives his life over and over - sort of a new version of "Groundhog Day" without Bill Murray. It definitely stirs one to think about how the small, seemingly insignificant decisions we make change the course that we are on for the rest of our lives and how we impact the world.
Then I've been reading Deep Church:A Third Way Beyond Emerging and Traditional by Jim Belcher. A very interesting book especially in light of Missio Lux. So much of what he is talking about as this third way is exactly what we are doing at Missio Lux. More blog-possibilities related to this for sure.
The third book is The Hole in the Gospel: The Answer that Changed My Life and Might Just Change the World by Richard Stearns, President of World Vision. Someone gave me this book a few weeks ago. The next week someone else told me her neighborhood book club read it and I should too. Then I was at a dinner party last weekend when another totally unrelated person told me she had just listened to this amazing book. So I was getting the feeling I should read my copy that I'd been moving from one pile to another on the kitchen counter.
All I can say is WOW. Reading this book was quite an experience. It is eye-opening, impactful and inspirational. Richard Stearns' personal story is amazing - added to what he has to share about the needs of the world and the status of the American Church addressing the reality of what is going on it is certainly a call to action.
We've also been working on our fall kick-off training for Missio Lux. I feel like I am in a most amazing place as I can see God working in Missio Lux in the ways so fitting with how my reading is resonating with me. An example of this shift, we just adopted a new description: Missio Lux is a faith community where everyone participates serving out of our gifts and resources for the building up of everyone else. Our year is focused on everyone discovering what it means to live the way that Jesus lived - Jesus' Lifestyle.
Tonight we are packaging another 6,000 meals for Children of the Nations with my husband's basketball buddies and their families. But tomorrow - back to my "series" on ordinary people that have started something extraordinary. What are you going to start today?

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

HOOPS

This week I'm blogging about ordinary people that started something extraordinary. I love this story. A 9 year old kid in 2004 decided to do something bigger than himself, others joined in, and thousands of lives have been saved because Austin started "Hoops of Hope". His book will be out soon called, "Take Your Best Shot."




You can host an event and learn more on the website: www.hoopsofhope.org - It is worth checking out.

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Start Something

Most things start with just one person initiating something. An idea, an inspiration or a divine vision results in something huge when someone starts and others join in. At Missio Lux we call this person a Catalyst. This video is a great illustration of this idea - and the "ripple effect" that results.

This week I'll be blogging about some of the ways the world is being changed by ordinary people who started something.

As you watch the video allow yourself to think about what you've started, and what you would like to start. Then join me this week as we take a look at people who have started something - Catalysts God is using to love and change the world.

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Never Want to Grow Up? Peter Pan Dance!



There is just something about Peter Pan. He never wants to grow up. Oh to be a kid forever. There is definitely some comfort in being a child. Growth is a tough process; even in our spiritual lives.

Just like Peter Pan, often we resist it; it can be challenging, even painful, to grow. Even the Apostle Paul didn't arrive at spiritual maturity, but kept pressing on toward it (Philippians 3:12-14). Maturing requires us to change our thinking, our minds need to be transformed, and then we need to be obedient to what we learn. (Romans 12:1-2) As we've been reflecting on at Missio Lux, maturity involves aligning our mind and heart with God's.

The key to doing this is found in Galatians 5:16 and 25, "So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature…Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit." In verse 16, the word "walk" is from the Greek word peripateo, which means "to walk with a purpose in view." The word "walk" in verse 25 is translated from another Greek word stoicheo that means "step by step, one step at a time." It is learning to walk under the instruction of another - that would be the Holy Spirit. Since followers of Christ have the Spirit dwelling in them, they should also walk under His control; choosing to apply God's Word to their life is maturing.

Spiritual maturity should be a priority. "Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil" (Hebrews 5:13-14).

Feed on the meat of the Bible, not just milk. Then apply the nutrition to life while walking in the Holy Spirit. Then God can produce growth. He will continue to shape us more and more into the image of Jesus Christ if we surrender to His Holy Spirit and learn His Word.

Hebrews 13:20-21 in the Message: "May God, who puts all things together, makes all things whole, Who made a lasting mark through the sacrifice of Jesus, the sacrifice of blood that sealed the eternal covenant, Who led Jesus, our Great Shepherd, up and alive from the dead, Now put you together, provide you with everything you need to please him, Make us into what gives him most pleasure, by means of the sacrifice of Jesus, the Messiah. All glory to Jesus forever and always! Oh, yes, yes, yes."

All About God was used as a Reference for this Post.

Friday, September 4, 2009

Powerful Story: Three Minute Video

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Losing Things


I just came home from our second day of school Parents' Coffee with the Principal. The second day because on the first day they have "Tea and Tissues" for the Kindergarten parents. As I passed by the Lost and Found in the hallway I was surprised to see that there is already quite a collection accumulating from just one day of school; a couple jackets, a belt, a lunch box, and some mom's large tupperware containers. It is amazing how easy it is to lose stuff.

One of the moms I talked to at the Coffee today mentioned that moms that used to work who have been home with their kids for a while can start to feel a little "soggy." Soggy, yup. But it can happen to anyone. Just like we lose our stuff, it is easy to lose our Identity and we need to be reminded of who and what we really are.

That is why I appreciate this summary of what the Bible says about our Identity in Christ that someone at Missio Lux compiled. (You may need to click on it to read it in a larger format.)


Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Community: The Saying Goodbye Part


It all started when we served dinner with Missio Lux at the Compass Center Men's Transitional Housing Facility in downtown Seattle. My daughter was quite distressed that despite our wonderful interactions with the men while we served food, ate with them and talked afterward; we didn't say goodbye at the door. In fact, she thought we should have had someone at the exit sending them out with a blessing; like "God Bless You."

I started to think about whether we say "Goodbye." I realized that the culture here in Sammamish is one of often not saying goodbye. People leave a meeting or a gathering in someone's home and just slip out - no goodbye. And I'm talking about church events too.

I remember when I grew up in Minnesota it seemed like it always took forever to leave anything. Even as young adults in small group communities in Southern California the conversations would move from the entryway, to the porch, to the driveway, until the conversation was finished with rolled down car windows.

This is why I was so delighted when I read a "peek a boo" chapter of a book that Scot McKnight introduced on his blog this week. I checked out the "look inside" on Amazon of Deep Church by Jim Belcher, and Richard J. Mouw. He was writing about so much of what we've experienced with community. Early in his life he had such fantastic connections in a group of people and later found that he had taken for granted how easy it was to establish this sense of community and connection; finding it hard to replicate later in other groups.

He shares how a Chilean couple joined their group. He writes: "They had this wonderful cultural habit of kissing everyone on both cheeks when they said goodbye. After a while we all picked up on this habit, even if the Chileans weren't there. It seemed so ancient, so biblical. But also so cosmopolitan. Our goodbyes took a lot longer." I can think of a few people, including my daughters, that would think this tradition is just "gross" - but the point is we can have our own habit of saying goodbye.

At our Arbors Missio Community at the end of our meetings we started giving blessings - Everyone sharing something they appreciate or like about someone else. The kids are the first ones to speak and their affirmations are usually very meaningful. We also tried this at Peace Seekers and it made a few women feel a little uncomfortable, but I think we will try it again because for some the encouragement was life giving.

Maybe we need some kind of handshake - but not a secret handshake; that would be too weird. My husband and I used to have hand signals at camp when we were dating and couldn't interact as boyfriend and girlfriend around the kids. My husband would tap the side of his head with his fist, which means something. Not sure what, but it still makes my knees weak occasionally.

The important thing is that to be a community that shows care, concern and value for others, we need to say goodbye. How do you like to say goodbye?

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Gift of a MOPS Group




Last night I had the privilege of meeting with a new MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) Group Coordinator. It is exciting to see another year of MOPS start even from the sidelines. As we talked about how to invite moms, I was reminded of my experience starting a MOPS group in Orange County.

It was in October that I felt through a whole variety of experiences that I should start a MOPS group at my church. The other groups in the area were full and it seemed that everywhere I went I was meeting moms who could benefit from MOPS. But it took me until August (I'm a little stubborn sometimes) to actually move forward and start the group. I didn't have a steering team or anything else, but I felt God was leading me to start it that fall. Yes, make a MOPS group in a month.
I went to my pastor and told him that I had to start a MOPS group and he said that it wouldn't work because during the week the church building was full because of the Preschool program. So I decided that we would hold MOPS on Sundays and that it would provide us with an instant MOPPETS program for the kids. After all, the kids could be a part of the existing Nursery and Sunday School. We were the first MOPS group in the country to meet on Sunday mornings!

Somehow God provided what we needed. We didn't have a craft leader, a finance coordinator, or a hospitality person. I was sort of IT. I did find three table leaders and three mentor moms who hesitantly agreed to try it out. As I sought out speakers it was incredible to find that authors and desired speakers from around Orange County would agree to come and share with our group - for free. We had a killer speaker list and within a couple weeks we had forty moms attending. Many had never been to church before. A lot of them we met in the park or the neighborhood.
One of the Table Leaders was a Young Life area director and she had a very difficult neighbor. This man was an angry alcoholic and really didn't like anything having to do with Young Life or the church. At times he made their life miserable. His wife was equally as closed, but Kristy took a bold step and invited her to come to MOPS. I'll never forget listening to my answering machine as Kristy was ecstatic explaining, "I think my neighbor Val is coming to MOPS and if she even comes once, or drives into the parking lot, all of this work will be worth it!"

Val came to our first MOPS and loved it. I remember her grinning from ear to ear as she related to my description of preschool moms sometimes feeling like a sucked up old juice box. She enthusiastically came back the next Sunday and was very excited about the community she was experiencing at MOPS.

However, the next week was a tragic week. In their home her husband, overcome by the affects of alcohol, took a gun and first shot at her and then killed himself. She was able to avoid injury (She says she felt like an angel pushed her out of the bullet's path) and her four year old daughter slept peacefully in the next room.

It turned out that before her two weeks at MOPS Val didn't have friends, only work acquaintances. She didn't have people to bring meals or a pastor to come along side of her during a time of incredible grieving and questioning. In fact, our entire church stepped up to help Val and her daughter. Even the staff at MOPS International was praying for her. She experienced true community and overtime developed a deep and meaningful faith; becoming very involved in the congregation.

As we look back on why there was such an urgency to start our MOPS group and why Kristy felt compelled to invite her, even Val could see that God provided her with a MOPS group. She tasted His incredible love and provision for her.

If you know or meet a preschool mom, tell her about MOPS. She can find a group in her area at http://www.mops.org/



Photo - MOPS Playday and Olympics Game 2009 (CW)

Monday, August 31, 2009

The Last Summer Sunday


Since we started Missio Lux people are often asking me what Sundays are like for us since we only have our larger church gathering once a month. They want to know what the other Sundays look like. One of my aunts is quite concerned about when my kids go to Sunday School.

I can honestly say that there hasn't been one Sunday that has been like any other. Our Arbors Community of families often meets Sundays at 5pm to share a time of learning, connection and dinner. Other weekends we have a Missio (Mission/Project).

Whatever it looks like, our Sundays are usually interesting, meaningful and memorable. Yesterday was certainly no exception. First, we participated in the Children of the Nations Food Packaging Assembly (Party with a Purpose) at Iglesia Covenant. Tamara did a great job telling the story you can read here about our amazing time gathering to pack meals for Africa and how we met to pack 2,000 meals but the money was miraculously multiplied so we were able to pack 5,220 meals. Moving us even closer to meeting our summer goal of packaging 40,000 meals.
We danced to lively music performed by our friends from Tanzenia and Bothel as we packed the meals. It was truly a celebration of God's love, community and the joy of serving others. Afterward, people just hung around enjoying each other's company even though not everyone spoke the same languages.

We raced from there to our Arbor's Missio Community gathering. Many of the families in our community were out of town for the last weekend of summer, but the three still in town gathered at a beautiful wooded park on Lake Sammamish. One family was generous enough to treat us all to time on their boat including tube rides for the kids, including my husband - who is just a bigger kid. We experienced genuine hospitality and community together sharing our Subway sandwiches and home packed tuna pasta salad.

My husband and daughter had a great thrill ride being pulled together behind the boat in as many circles and fast runs over the waves as Mike the driver could create. Later as I watched my daughters screaming together on the tube raft dragging behind the boat having the time of their life enjoying the lake and beautiful scenery, I thought, "This is how everyone should get to do church."

Thursday, August 27, 2009

Permit Problems


Missio Lux was looking forward to our fourth event in Occidental Square to hang out with the Seattle homeless and share a meal with them at the end of August. The last time we were there was Easter. We were a little bit disappointed then because we were unable to have bands or microphones as we had in the past, but understood the desires of the downtown neighbors for quiet on Sunday.

This time we wanted to provide a meal and time for friendship and connecting as we have in the past. (We actually served 1000 Meals at our first event!) But we were unable to obtain a permit from the City of Seattle. Evidently the City Council has changed their guidelines about providing services for the homeless outside of the existing shelters.
One of my friends said this reminded her of Scrooge and how he said something like there are plenty of "poor farms" and "work houses." I know the issue is multi-faceted and complex, but there needs to be a better approach to figuring out how to provide support and care for the growing and diverse homeless population - realizing that they are not just going to go away if their needs are ignored.

So I appreciated the comments made in this video by Shane Claiborne. His story about a similar situation is quite remarkable. I think you will enjoy this 30 minute talk and his reminder that, yes, even Jesus was homeless.




Shane Claiborne Talk from Covenant Communications on Vimeo.

Missio Lux provides a breakfast to Seattle's downtown homeless populations two Saturday mornings a month. You are invited to come and serve with your family. MORE INFORMATION

This photo was taken at our last event in Occidental Square.



Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Worth Imitating?

What in your life is worth others imitating? It may seem overwhelming to think that we live in enough of a Christ-like manner that others would or should imitate us. We will never approach perfect that is for sure. But Paul as our example said, "Imitate my life as I imitate Christ." (I Cor 4:16) and "Remember your leaders, who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith." (Hebrews 13:7)

Jesus modeled living life together with the disciples and at an even deeper level of intimacy with specifically Peter, James and John. Do you have people that you are investing in and living life with? This video reminded me in a silly way of this important concept of replication and imitation:

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

Itchy Ears



For a time is coming when people will no longer listen to sound and wholesome teaching. They will follow their own desires and will look for teachers who will tell them whatever their itching ears want to hear. They will reject the truth and chase after myths.

But you should keep a clear mind in every situation. Don’t be afraid of suffering for the Lord. Work at telling others the Good News, and fully carry out the ministry God has given you. 2 Timothy 4:3-5 (New Living Translation)

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Parking and Puppies

A couple times I've heard people say that God is not a divine parking lot attendant. That when we ask Him to get involved in the small things in our life (like finding a close parking spot at the mall) that is not His role. But I'm continually not so sure. Obviously God is much bigger than our little needs and everything is not about individuals but also community - but honestly, if you pay attention how can you deny that God is also in the small stuff when we invite Him to be.

I haven't been blogging for a few days because we have a new puppy that has been requiring quite a bit of attention, although he is amazing and so far he has taken to training easily despite his inexperienced masters.

We've talked about getting a dog for a long time. As we considered what kind of dog to get and where, my kids would periodically include during dinner grace, "God help us find the right puppy for our family." I also started praying but more like, "Oh help me God." And I also seriously prayed that I would feel comfortable with the breeder and that we wouldn't get "taken" by a bad puppy situation that would distract us from more important things.

My desire to see the world change has me conflicted over the whole idea of investing money and time in a dog - better to care for a needy child perhaps. But I am not Angelina Jolie and my husband isn't scrambling to adopt another child now that we are "middle aged," so I am looking at all the benefits it will bring our children; learning to care for a dog, instilling a connection to home as they become teens, and creating family memories.

I started looking on-line during our vacation in Minnesota for breeders across the country with a certain type of dog we were most interested in. I found one that was in Seattle. As I looked into possibilities it was definitely the most impressive one. Upon digging deeper I found that she wasn't in the city, but right near our home. In fact, we can walk to her house from our neighborhood. Our church service was even held in the park right across the lake from her house the night we were considering whether to adopt the puppy.

As I told a friend about the breeder she said, "We know her. Her husband works for World Vision." When we met this sweet family that loves puppies and every member of the family has important roles in caring for the litters and ensuring that they are socialized and ready to be fantastic pets for the families that take them home, we immediately identified a handful of other people that we know in common.

We could not have had a better experience in selecting our puppy and being prepared. In fact, they met with us until 10:30 pm the night we brought "Teddy" home. I could not have felt more comfortable about the arrangement. Coincidence? I think not.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Out of Alignment?

Since I had a flat tire when we came home from our Missio Community camp out my husband took the car into CostCo to see if it was covered on our tire warranty. Unfortunately, it wasn't because our tires had uneven wear due to being out of alignment. Even now with two new tires my tires need to be brought into a mechanic to be aligned. One thing CostCo doesn't do (at least yet).

Our lives can also get out of alignment; our thoughts, emotions and behaviors. Tamara Buchan's Blog today about Alignment is worth a read: CLICK HERE

You can print out this bookmark of her great list of alignment questions (above). Review them each day for a month. That is how to start a new habit and get realigned.

Monday, August 17, 2009

Puppy!!


Not blogging today as we are getting ready to bring our new puppy (above) home tomorrow. He is waiting for a name. Any suggestions?

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Do Something Crazy? Part I

What do you think of this challenge? I think he stereotypes all Christians a little too much as not doing anything - but his illustration is interesting. What do you think? Are you walking the beam? Doing cartwheels and handsprings? Going crazy? What does or would crazy look like in your life?

Friday, August 14, 2009

A Toast To Having a Sister!

Oh, the comfort- the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person- having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are, chaff and grain together; certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then with the breath of kindness, blow the rest away. - Dinah Maria Mulock Craik (1866)

I learned something two years ago at Family Camp as David Nystrom talked about Paul and the early church. He emphasized how people in the first churches were like brothers and sisters to each other. I'll never forget him saying, "Being a brother or sister is doing unto someone else without ever expecting anything in return."

"Help one another is part of the religion of our sisterhood." - Louisa May Alcott


Quotes and drawing from Susan Branch: Girlfriends Forever